5 ways to enhance your feminine charm and captivate it
Do you feel like an Empress of sensual Love who knows how to captivate men and leave them hungry for more of your heavenly attention?
Isn’t there something in Angelina Jolie’s eyes and smile that just screams, “I feel like you are looking at me, and Baby, your attention warms my heart and soul and turns me on in a deliciously sexy way.”
No? Maybe it’s just me.
But I don’t think many would say that Angelina is a sensual Empress of love. She has a “certain heat” and a graceful, compassionate, gentle and feminine way of being, but also electrically dangerous. All those qualities combined create a recipe for love and lust in the heart and groin of men everywhere.
Although she is beautiful, there are many more beautiful women in my opinion. It’s about how she feels on the inside and how the energy those feelings create RUSKS out of her. This makes its beauty very special.
Even if he didn’t know about her achievements and humanitarian acts, he would probably still be attracted to her and feel her Star Power. She is the most fascinating woman I have ever seen in celebrity circles.
Here are 5 ways YOU can feel like an Empress of Love and start wowing men everywhere:
First way to enhance your feminine charm: indulge your senses
Part of having Feminine Allure is being a sensual woman. When you are sensitive and easily ENJOY the beauty found in touch, sound, taste, sight and smell, you attract men effortlessly.
Look, men love sexy women. They make men feel comforted, curious about something strange to them, and very excited. (A man is turned on when we are sensual because sex involves all your senses and your sensuality makes them think of sex).
In today’s society, we are bombarded with pollution on our senses. There is so much traffic, construction, and so much energy around us that it makes us sleepy. We lose contact with our bodies and feelings because we are overstimulated by the modern world.
Have you ever gone to the field and felt refreshed afterwards? Do you ever stop eating salt for a while and suddenly you can taste things more intensely?
Get really good with your senses and find ways to enjoy poetry in life:
- Buy pretty, fragrant flowers at the local market to place by your bed.
- Go to expensive beauty stores and smell the fancy scented oils. (Maybe even buy a bottle and apply a little behind your ear at night.)
- Sandwich fresh, warm bread and quality meats from a gourmet deli.
- Listen to baroque music on free internet radio while sending an email.
Treat your senses. It will make you slow down automatically and enjoy the moment. Your heart will smile and a smiling heart INVITES men to play and laugh with you.
Second way to enhance your feminine charm: pamper your body
I know it’s hard to eat right, exercise, and remember to moisturize after every shower, but try to do ONE beautiful thing for your body every day.
See, being good to your body changes the way you feel about your sex appeal. It also raises your level of happiness.
It makes you bounce through the aisles of the market, instead of dragging you. It makes you touch your clean silky hair in a sexy way instead of scratching your oily scalp when you are anxious. It makes you open up to receive a man’s keys instead of shrinking with the energy of “I don’t want to be touched” …
Ways to pamper your body:
- Take a dance class.
- Buy a watermelon and enjoy every healthy, juicy, sweet and doughy bite.
- Smear on some baby oil after you shower and BEFORE you towel off.
- Take a hot bubble bath with some delicious bath salts.
- Get a spa pedicure or ask your man to massage your back with some oils.
- Make sure the sheets smell like clean clothes and have a high thread count, and then sleep naked.
- Spend money on quality shampoos and conditioners.
Third way to enhance your feminine charm: breathe
When you start the day and end the night with a few minutes of deep, relaxed breathing, you are relieving the tension in your body and allowing the stress to escape. You are absorbing the life force around you and connecting with it.
Breathing calms your mind and opens your heart. This equates to fewer fears and insecurities and more loving energy for your life and relationships.
Remember to breathe during sex too. Relax your body and allow you to enjoy the touch of a man. It also invites a more emotional connection.
The next time you’re with your man in bed, focus on your breathing. Tell yourself that with each inhale you are INVITING your heart and with each exhale you are EXPELLING the fears and anxiety that surround love and closeness.
You can be overwhelmed with emotion and it is very beautiful for a man when his vulnerable emotions are released during sex.
Fourth way to enhance your feminine charm: feel that playful buzz of new love and lust
When a new love strikes like lightning or we are lusting after a great lover and we can’t stop thinking about the way it touches us, we are emitting pheromones. We feel great inside … and so do all the male olfactory glands within a ten foot radius.
It is not difficult to recreate that feeling of new love or carnal desire for a few minutes of your day. You just have to know your triggers and know how to relax enough to make them work for you.
Triggers can be:
- Romance novels or fantasizing about old llamas
- Silky clothes that caress your skin in a way that gives you goosebumps and excites your nerve endings.
- Daily masturbation
- Intense cardiovascular exercise
- Good jazz or rock music (think about what song you would strip naked on a fantasy amateur striptease night.
Find a way to feel playful and restless inside when you’re anxious, depressed, or even bored. It will really help prevent depression and is actually a healthy way to get rid of anger … If you are angry and then get turned on, that anger turns into confident, warm and fighting energy in your body. (Normally, they can turn into dark, fragile, self-deprecating and violent thoughts in your mind leading to great rigidity in your body.)
Fifth way to enhance your feminine charm: empower yourself through journal writing
Write down your strengths as a woman that men adore.
Writing empowering mantras and self-descriptions makes them more concrete. It allows us to believe and remember them more than if we leave them as passing thoughts. Convert dream self-images to TARGET self-images.
Write adjectives that describe your unique feminine charm. Are you seductive, witty, mysterious, daring and sulfuric?
Make the ‘If I were an exercise animal‘and ask yourself, “If my feminine side were an animal, what would it be?”
Pick something sexy and dangerous like a black widow spider that gently draws unpretentious men with its fragile elegance and lithe touch. Give it a name like Sardinia the Spider.
Pick something soft, sweet, cuddly, and adorable like a fluffy white bunny who knows how to snuggle and melt the hearts of men everywhere.
Don’t judge him as immature and dumb, allow yourself to have fun!
Open your imagination and let your mind feed your confidence and awaken your feminine power. Very often our mind leads us to negative thoughts that kill our faith in ourselves and our confidence in men. If you can allow your thoughts to be creative and goofy, it will help you feel more free to be more playful, confident and light with men.
It will also strengthen your fighting and tumultuous side and allow you to write about fictitious aliases. Some of mine are Debbie Dare-to-Love-Love-Me McDaniels, the wild and free-spirited outlaw who wears red lipstick and ripped pantyhose, or Brenda Breathless, a modern day fatal woman whose cleavage pierces men’s hearts like an AK47.
Be creative, don’t take yourself too seriously, and let your imagination dictate where your pencil goes on the page. Dare to have fun thinking and writing about how attractive you are to the opposite sex.