5 Dating Tips for Men and Women
Top 5 Dating Tips
Here are 5 practical tips to help you get more dates…
Dating tip 1 – It’s a numbers game
You have to meet a lot of potential partners.
You will not be compatible with everyone. In fact, it’s probably a true match for less than 0.2% of people. So there’s no point in going out a few times, feeling rejected because you haven’t found someone to be in a relationship with, and giving up.
You can put all of the following dating tips to work, you can have Sean Connery’s flirting skills, Davina McCall’s conversation skills, but if you’re not available for a significant number of dates, you’re never going to win the dating game.
If you are not looking for dates or dating 2 or 3 times a weekask yourself why?
Dating tip 2 – Where to find dates
There are great places to go and trashy places to find a ton of potential dates. Go back to the numbers again.
If you don’t like socializing, or attending dating events and would rather meet people through your hobbies, you’d better make sure your hobby isn’t collecting Bolivian stamps. Find the best places to get a large number of potential dates and use them.
If you avoid using the best places, you are seriously reducing your chances of finding great dates and relationships.
Dating tip 3: make a good first impression
Whether your potential date sees you first in a photograph, at a speed dating table, or in a dimly lit bar, you better look your best if you’re out and about.
For those gifted few, style and taste come naturally. They know the shape of your body, the best way to disguise and emphasize. If you’re not sure if you have those abilities naturally, I suggest you get a makeover. At least then you’ll have established principles of what you should and shouldn’t wear. And it makes a big difference.
The first hurdle everyone faces in the dating game is that of physical attraction. You can substantially increase or decrease your physical attractiveness by what you wear and if what you’re wearing isn’t doing you any favors, you’re unknowingly missing out on a lot of potential dates.
If you can’t afford a makeover, grab the first Trinny and Susannah book (What Not to Wear) and ask your friends to confirm your body shape and color choices according to your principles.
Dating tip 4: meet your date
Ideally, you should always be in an environment where meeting your date is a natural situation. That’s why night classes or friends parties are great: introductions happen more naturally.
However, if you are in a bar or see someone on the street that you would kill to meet, you will need to walk up and introduce yourself.
Again, just like styling, some people can do this naturally and without fear. If you’re not one of them, I suggest you learn what you need to do to improve your ability to approach people. Let’s be honest, there are a limited number of friends’ parties and night classes you can go to, and most opportunities to meet potential dates happen outside of them.
Dating tip 5 – The dating conversation is important
Suppose you both like each other physically. The most important thing that decides whether the two of you will end up on a date together is your compatibility. However, you may be a match but still not get along. How?
Because your conversation fails you.
If you get tongue-tied when talking to beautiful-looking people or if the content of what you’re saying is drier than a dog biscuit, you may be missing out on partners you’d hit it off with if you could just get over that first. Introduction.
Great dating conversation is a learnable skill – all it takes is following a few key principles and a little practice.