Get Your Ex To Return Your Phone Calls – This Tip Always Works
After a breakup, I’m sure you know that it’s painful to stare at your phone all day, expecting to see your ex’s name flashing on the screen. You may have been playing with numbers too, but you never got to call your ex to tell him how sorry you are. You find yourself in need of talking to your ex because you have so many questions that only he or she can answer. You may wonder if your ex still has feelings for you … Or you realize that in order to rebuild love and trust in the relationship, it is important that both of you talk.
Whatever it is, the problem only gets worse when you finally decide to call. This is because you only have about three seconds to make an impression before your ex hangs up on you. So what can you say? Is there a ‘magic’ word you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? It may seem incredible, but not only are there “magic” words that work, there are also many ways to make it possible.
Before continuing, I first want to point out that there is an amazing resource at the end of this article that explains this particular strategy in more detail. If you’ve been crying about whether or not you should call your ex, then you absolutely must check out this resource.
Now on that tip …
People trying to reestablish relationships always ask me this: “How do I get my ex to return my phone calls or texts?”
My answer is always simple: I tell them what not to say. It is important to know what you should never say because saying all the wrong words will only put you in an unfair psychological position.
The wrong words generally fall into two categories:
# 1 The Plead – For example: “John, please call me. This is the fifth time I’ve called. I really need to talk to you!”
# 2 The so-called “emergency” that goes something like this: “Mandy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you hear this.”
Do you know what’s wrong with those approaches? Show how desperate you are. Your ex probably won’t return those calls.
This is why you have to use “curiosity” and “self-interest” instead. If you learn to use them to your advantage, you will have a recipe that works like a spell to bring someone back into your life.