How to seduce a friend
If you’ve ever tried to seduce (or win the heart of) a friend, then you know it’s no easy task.
The average guy makes big mistakes. And as a result, most guys are likely to be unsuccessful at this.
Actually, some guys manage to pull this off.
If you ever find yourself in this situation, follow these simple instructions and your success will increase dramatically.
By the way, this method was discovered by accident. I remember one time I was talking to a friend and started talking about a new girl I was dating.
At that time, he had never talked to her about other women. I guess I thought it would ruin my chances.
I was completely wrong.
In fact, the more she talked about the new girl, she noticed that the friend was starting to show signs of jealousy.
Everything inside me told me, I better back off. Then I thought about it, he never had a problem talking to me about other guys. Once I realized this, I took it to another level.
In a surprisingly short period of time, he started flirting with me. Then, as the days passed, she had fallen very much in love with me.
Basically all I did was make her jealous, but I did it in a unique way. I’ll explain.
First: You have to remember that most people frown on such tactics. I should know because I used to be one of those people.
People who don’t strategically hug to make a woman jealous say things like:
“It’s childish.”
“It’s a game”.
“It’s manipulation.”
I avoid putting labels on anything.
As far as I’m concerned, life is about being prepared and doing what works, as long as no one gets hurt. In my view, it’s no different than what people do when preparing for a job interview.
“They want to leave the right impression.”
“They want to frame themselves as desirable.”
“They want to be selected.”
If you follow these two simple tips that I am about to cover, you will be able to seduce a friend in a way that may seem almost too easy.
First, focus on building the “new girl” value. It doesn’t work as well if your friend perceives the new girl as unsexy (or low quality).
This new girl has to be attractive, intelligent, and an overall good person. She almost has to seem too good to be true.
Once you get this message across, you want to convey to the friend that this “new girl” finds certain desirable qualities in you, preferably ones that your friend can quickly agree to. That way, it’s impossible for her to dismiss the new girl’s point of view.
If that happens, all your leverage will be gone.
You want to get the picture in your friend’s mind of seeing a hot new girl who perceives you as a “sexy prize.”
It’s that easy.
And yet, it’s one of the most effective ways to get a friend to start seeing you in a sexier way.
So why does it work so well?
Well, without getting too into the psychological factors that drive it, it has everything to do with 2 simple things:
“Women are programmed to be attention addicts.” (The truth is, we all are. It’s not a bad thing.) The more attention you give the new girl, the more the friend will start demanding your attention in a way she won’t understand.
“Humans will automatically assign more value to something (i.e., an object or a person) once they realize that other people also value that thing/person.”
However, they must respect the person assigning the value. In other words, you’re not going to INCREASE your “perceived value” of Pepsi if you see a bum drinking it.
But, if you saw Michael Jordan, Peyton Manning, or Tiger Woods drinking Pepsi, then it has a different psychological effect on you, whether you are aware of this principle or not.
As a result, you’ll suddenly crave Pepsi or, at the very least, see it as more desirable.
Suddenly, you won’t find anything wrong with trying Pepsi.
It works the same way when seducing a friend. You’re not trying to make her instantly “take her clothes off” and drag you into the room.
When you’re just starting out, you just want to do something that makes him think it’s okay for him to give you a chance.
In conclusion: When it comes to seducing a friend, you only have 2 goals. Discover something that makes her feel more attracted to you. And number two, don’t make silly seduction mistakes.