Let your past make you better not bitter

The problem with bitterness is that it keeps you a prisoner. It controls you, how you see the world and the people around you. It denies you the ability to trust and denies you the opportunity to find deep closeness with others. Bitterness keeps you self-focused, rather than affection-focused.

Dwelling on your past, grasping it but not controlling it, putting it somewhere inside, that’s what causes hardness.

We as a whole have a set of experiences. Some of us have seen a hard story, and some of us have seen the right story. However, we must get out of earlier. The best thing you can do is embrace the here and now. It is the most ideal approach to create your future.

Through numerous instances of settling on some unacceptable choice and learning the hard way possible, I’ve found that occasionally in those distressing circumstances it’s easier to recognize what it is. No one can change the past, no matter how much a person or thing is despised; that disdain cannot transform anything. However, your disposition about the future may allow you to acknowledge the past. So there is something that I would rather say to those of an earlier time.

Life is short, too short to pass up conceivable results. Life is equally sweet. Appreciate the inspiration that the world brings; contempt and cynicism simply lead to darkness.

We can understand that your past hurts but never allow it to the point of bitterness. However, don’t let your set of experiences take over your current life. Or something bad could happen, there is a chance that it will destroy your future. But when you realize that your past is worth learning about, you become better.

However, in the event that you grieve over your past, no one can help you get the ideal achievement in everyday life. In fact, one thing you can do is make your past the apparatus of your prosperity.

Try to take advantage of your mistakes and apply your experience to develop your future. Moreover, in the event that you cannot do it, it is best not to remember your past and start over.

Finally, don’t let people’s mistakes characterize how you see them and don’t let them burn you out. Everyone has their demons, and everyone is simply looking for someone whose evil presences play nice with theirs.