Power dynamics of dating and seduction
To be an effective womanizer, this is what you have to do (it all boils down to this):
Take them from being the ‘pick’ to being the answer to your natural, masculine character.
When you can turn her from a irritable, overrated, socially desired woman to the innocent, receptive, captivated girl in you, that’s seduction.
The true sexual nature of a woman is her natural character. It is NOT her social character or sexually exploited which is similar to porn videos.
Do you remember the women of National Geographic? That is an example of natural women without any level of extreme social influence. Compare that to current Ashlee Simpson clones.
The women of today who you want to sleep with instantly the second you see, are accentuating and exploiting their sexuality to cause men to ‘respond’. They have learned and adapted to this from their own social environment.
None of this is natural. Social influence is now a great game of power and influence. It is no longer our tribal societies where we come together for the common good. Your ability to differentiate that is incredibly powerful.
By saying that we are social creatures, you are condemning yourself to be a pawn subject to the power and influence of someone above you in the game and the current social power hierarchy.
And when you’re a pawn at the bottom end of this social hierarchy, you don’t have much power or choice when you play that game.
It is similar to the tax advantages that an employee has; almost none because you’re stuck in a relationship you’re not clearly aware of.
Any woman without true character can now become a softcore clone. She can dress, act, look, accent, talk and behave like her role models of high social status.
Doing this means that you will have instant attention from men because you are harnessing this social power to be the “pick” for men who have been conditioned to automatically respond to this exploitation of women.
So when it comes to being successful with these women for physical relationships or dating, if a man acknowledges the social hierarchy that she is above him, he doesn’t stand a chance except fools. Because? Because he is lower in the social hierarchy and women expect men of his level or higher in relational power.
He is the lower status ‘response’ that he is someone trying to ‘get something’ out of his desired (exploited) mass sexuality. Whoever has the most power (the woman here) can easily say no without feeling lost.
She is the prize and despite what society promotes, it is all one big big fantasy. It’s not what she wants either.
To be a true seducer, you care about what really matters; the natural game of attraction. That means you’ll put aside the artificial hierarchical power game because you don’t participate in it, and instead see the woman for what she REALLY is on the inside.
You search for her truth within and draw her out of it. The inner character of her can also be overwhelming, but it’s not even that…it’s the true feminine core within her that knows how to respond to a strong man.
It is her internal guaranteed biology that overrides every level of social development or someone else’s power game that she participates in.
So, to seduce these women, don’t play the de-power game where you ARE lower in the hierarchy than her and then have to set a higher value, pull her down, be arrogant, etc. just to EQUAL your power in relation to her.
Instead, be truly EQUAL or greater in relational power in the first place. In fact, you HAVE TO BE to have more than just success here and there (especially with the MOST desirable and beautiful women).
There doesn’t have to be any gimmicks or techniques because all those guys (most of the pick-up community) are trying to do is level the power in the relationship anyway so it can officially get started.
I teach you to truly BE equal to or greater in relational power in the first place so you don’t have to waste time proving that you’re playing the power game; instead, you can go ahead and they will help you seduce them because they finally met a man who understands them and who they can ‘trust’ to respond.
From there, it will be much easier for her to let go of her logic because she can trust that you are yourself, then she will begin to play out and highlight her natural, responsive character with your leadership.