Romantic Temperament – What is it?
Is it wonderful when your lover knows exactly what you wanted? But in real life, things often don’t turn out the way you dreamed. And when you want romantic intimacy, your spouse turns on his side and sleeps, but when you feel tired, he overwhelmingly wants you.
Why it happens? The answers to this question are probably as many as there are people who would have an answer.
The reason a large number of marriages break up in the first two years of marriage is not because of a difference in character but because of romantic incompatibility. When choosing a partner in life, we take into consideration things like: appearance, education, sense of humor, and financial stability. But we do not always pay attention to romantic compatibility, if our temperament matches the temperament of our future spouse.
Problems in intimate life occur either because the romantic needs of men and women do not match (different romantic temperaments) or because of physical disproportions. But if the second happens very seldom, the first – quite often.
The romantic temperament is defined by the level of hormones, specific nerve activity, and the strength of a tendency. By these different parameters we can divide people into three groups: strong, weak and average romantic cards.
It is obvious that people with high romantic needs are better off finding passionate partners for marriage and those for whom romantic compatibility is not at the top of the list should find a calmer partner.
Those, who are given a strong romantic temperament by nature, mature earlier than their age group. Girls and boys mature at the age of 10-11 years and some of them from 12-13 start to be interested in romantic intimacy. The romantic tendency of this type of person is very strong. Romantic intimacy ranks high for them on a scale of core values. And if the couple does not match them, they will most likely look for another.
Some experts believe that there is a connection between the physical constitution of the person, his body and the type of character. So, according to that theory, hot-tempered women and men are usually not very tall, with a well-developed body.
Regarding character traits, it is known that extroverts are more liberated romantics: sociable, active, impulsive and fun people. They are usually considered the soul of the company.
Most of those people are good leaders. They are strong, aggressive and capable of winning competitive fights. They are usually successful in life (of course, there is always an exception to every rule). Among them there are many politicians and businessmen.