Understand the Conditions for a Successful Relationship: Get Your Ex Back Using These Principles
The reason why most relationships fail is due to various reasons. These reasons imply a misunderstanding between both parties in the relationship. There are general conditions by which a healthy and stable relationship works. If you can meet these conditions, it will make your relationship with your ex extremely pleasant and enjoyable. If it doesn’t stick, it means dysfunction and permanent rupture. Listen to the following tips to get your ex back and have a happy relationship.
A successful relationship is based on the same effort on both sides.
You cannot expect to always receive love, attention, care, affection without giving yourself the same things. A healthy relationship requires commitment on both sides. You must give of yourself what you expect to receive from your partner. My rule of thumb for anything in my life is to always give more value than I receive, and I can tell you that nothing is more rewarding than embracing this rule. Acting in this way allows you to never be in a state of expectation, because you are always giving a lot of yourself. In fact, you will start to get addicted to behaving this way, because by doing so you will receive much more than you could imagine!
A healthy relationship requires effective communication-
If there is any miscommunication in the relationship, it can spell disaster in the long run. You’ve probably already figured this out. But if you allow little problems to arise or the passion to die down in your relationship, you can expect a bitter end in time. Keep the passion alive by communicating effectively with your ex on a regular basis. Make sure there is good chemistry between you on a regular basis. Also, if there is any conflict, or small amounts of tension, make absolutely sure that it is removed by talking to them. If there’s one thing you can drastically change in your relationship, it’s to become an expert communicator with your ex. Focus strongly on this discipline.
Focus on the good things and ways to make things better.
So often in relationships people focus and almost develop an obsession with things that irritate them and what they dislike about their other half. This is a recipe for disaster, because we absolutely get what we focus on. If you keep focusing on the negative aspects, your mind will always look for reasons to reinforce its “focus.” For example, you don’t like how your ex talks. You will always pay more attention to what they say and look for the reasons why you hate what they say.
Instead, focus intensely on the good things about your partner. Her smile, her kindness, compassion, her sense of humor. I don’t care if you start obsessing over it. Look for all the more subtle things that reinforce what you love so much about your ex. If you like his smile, look at his lips and wait until he puts a big goofy smile on his face. Focus is an incredible power in relationships!