Whether it’s euthanizing your pet or letting nature take its course

The dilemma of being in control of someone else’s life is one of the biggest situations and biggest responsibilities you will ever have to face while here on this planet. Having the love and loyalty of a cat or dog is one of the greatest gifts you will ever receive in return. As they age or get injured, it is up to us to become their caretakers and make all the decisions regarding their longevity, health, and the best course of action to take.

As their owner (I really don’t like this term) you are responsible for them as they can’t talk and they let you know how much pain they are in and this is one of the many challenges you will face when the time comes. My personal opinion is irrelevant as you yourself will see and know when and what to do once the situation starts to deteriorate. If you’re looking for some guidelines, I’ve taken the time to put together some tips for you.

Signs that it is time to think about making a decision

• Can’t your pet walk?

• Is your pet incontinent?

• Has your pet stopped eating?

• Has your pet stopped drinking?

• Is he or she just not themselves?

• Are they uncomfortable and restless?

These are all questions you will receive from your veterinary professional along with others depending on the condition your loved one is suffering from. These are the things to think about if you are considering euthanasia.

Whether you choose to euthanize or let life take its course is your own personal decision. But my personal theory is that if you can alleviate some suffering, why wouldn’t you? Our own selfishness gets in the way sometimes, as we know it’s the last time we’ll hug or see them, so we hold on a little longer. If you have the strength to ease some of their suffering, I think that is a gift. Being with them as they walk by is also a gift you can give them, the comfort of your hand and voice as they run away I think would have a soothing and calming effect. This also requires strength on our behalf, all of this strength is sometimes hard to muster, but if we can, I believe it is our ultimate gift to them.

After your loved one has passed away, you may wonder where they will go next. You can cremate or bury your pet. This is also a personal choice and only you and your family can decide. Pet cremation urns are available and some are stunning and there are also some beautiful and peaceful pet cemeteries for you to choose from. This means more decisions must be made by the family at a very emotional time, once again on behalf of their loyal and loving fur baby.