How do men show love?
Decoding a guy’s action can give most girls a headache. It is because men are not as articulate as women when it comes to expressing their feelings in words. If you keep asking, “How do men show love?” then there are signs of detection of affection that a boy cannot hide.
Studies show that men don’t rely on words to express their feelings. Men are action oriented. Feelings for men demand action. So when you want to talk about your feelings with a man, he reacts as if feelings are a problem to be solved. It never occurs to him that this is an opportunity to build emotional closeness. So how do men show love? When a woman asked a man who knew if he loved her, wanting him to say the words, he replied, “Have you not been paying attention to what I have been doing?” It’s more a matter of communication style than of men’s commitment issues.
This article will describe some signs of behavior that you may not realize that you are sending.
1. He lends you his dearest possession
Among us human beings, property is part of ourselves. If he lends you his iPod or his favorite sweater, he has entrusted an important part of himself to you. He has expressed vulnerability, knowing that you could lose her and that would hurt him a lot, but he is willing to trust you.
2. Are you willing to have a photo taken with you?
A typical guy will have a twisted perception with a camera. At one point, you may rush into a pose. But when he has a photoshoot with the girl he’s dating, he can be a little nervous. It’s because a man generally wanted to project being single even though he’s involved. So, in the event that your friend wraps his arm around your shoulder for a camera shot, you are sending a signal to everyone that you are off the market.
3. He wants to keep you safe
From the earliest days of our species, men have protected women. The knight in shining armor rescuing the damsel in distress is not just a woman’s fantasy. Don’t be surprised when he unwraps a gift filled with pepper spray, personal alarms, or stun gun, this means he wanted to keep it safe even when they’re apart. Your own security reflex is so powerful that it ends up giving you self-defense tools and safety devices. Isn’t it more romantic than the usual flowers and chocolates?
4. When he eats, he sits next to you and shares his food with you
Have you noticed that women sit face to face, looking into each other’s eyes, sharing their feelings, while men sit next to each other, talking about what they are seeing or what reminds them of external things? At the beginning of your dates, a man will sit across from you, but when he’s comfortable with you, he’ll want to sit next to you. Sharing a meal is a fundamental human ritual, which expresses and builds community. Sharing food goes beyond that. Sharing food dates back to the beginnings of our species: males become hunters and bring their prey to share with their females, children and community. He is providing you symbolically.
These are the ways that men show love: through action. To find out if he loves you, see what he does.