Lolita: a precociously seductive young lady
Dads, sisters and older brothers have a responsibility to protect the potential young Lolita.
Webster defines: ‘Lolita’… precociously seductive girl. ‘Precocious’… exceptionally early in development; smart beyond her years; advanced, advanced, developed, premature; ripe. ‘Seductive’…attractive; seductive; fascinating; captivating; draw, enchant; fascinating, magnetic; siren; desirable; Mouth watering.
Girls, especially cute or pretty girls, at eight years old will begin to realize that they can elicit a response from others, especially men, with a special smirk or giggle. She soon notices that even her father, her older brother, and family friends give her a special kiss on the nose and a big hug, while running their fingers through her hair.
Every month and year, as you get older, you become more aware of your ability to get more and more attention from more and more men. It is most likely not her desire to seduce every man she meets, but she probably realizes that she is developing the ability to do so.
It is not common for eight-year-old girls to show interest in sex. They watch teenagers and adults kiss and touch each other and realize that there is a reason why they do it. The young will want to imitate the older ones. Young girls may want to see a naked man and will knowingly go into the toilet or bathroom to achieve it. This can result in a response to exchange a look for a look and so on.
At twelve years old, girls notice that their bodies have changed, and boys and older men notice it too. It is human nature (female nature) to enjoy the stars and the expressions of men as they try to see more and more. All girls are aware of their ability to be attractive and captivating, even to their parents and brothers.
They soon learn, perhaps more quickly thanks to television, that they can do little things to make themselves even more desirable and stimulate quicker responses from the viewer.
Perhaps on a hot sunny day she might deliberately act provocative while sucking on a lollipop while lying on the grass near the lawn chair where dad is sitting. Naturally, her bare feet face Dad, and she’s wearing a thin, flowing dress that falls close to her hips as he lifts one leg over the other knee.
Maybe later in the day she makes sure she’s wearing this skinny dress when her brother walks by as she stands under the garden sprinkler laughing and slowly backbends.
A few days later, you might notice your uncle enjoying the shade under a tree near the clothes line. She is sure that her uncle finds her attractive and that he touches her politely whenever she can. She deliberately steps over her outstretched legs as she walks toward the house. She’s not surprised when he grabs her and pulls her to the ground next to him and starts tickling her ribs.
Later at night, he has a wish to be tickled again by his uncle. After Mom and Dad are in bed, she quietly goes from her upstairs room to his. Her uncle is sitting by her desk in his underpants. He immediately reaches for her jeans, but she quickly grabs the jeans and holds them up behind her. She’s not surprised when he playfully pretends to take them off…and soon he’s tickling her ribs.
The next morning, she is ready to bring him breakfast when mom asks. She places the tray on the nightstand and doesn’t resist when he sits down and pulls her to him and tickles her ribs again.
A week later, her brother returns home after working out at the gym. The young sister and her friend are sitting on the porch laughing and laughing out loud. “What’s so funny, sister?” He asks. Sally wants me to ask you if you want to play doctor and nurse.” She replies. “I wouldn’t feel safe with two nurses,” he jokes as she heads into her room.
The next morning, after Dad leaves for work, she, her mom, and her brother are having breakfast together. When Mom goes to the kitchen for more cookies, Sister smiles and says politely, “Doc, Mom and Dad won’t be home until late tonight.”
‘All girls, of all ages, have the potential to be Lolita. It is the responsibility of caring and effective parents to understand human nature and to believe and accept the fact that all children of all ages are sexually curious in all areas of sex. This is definitely the time to teach Effective Sex Education (including “Sex Education Tips for Teens”). It is the parents’ responsibility to always be vigilant and teach effective sex education. Just as masturbation by girls and boys should never be condemned, teaching girls how to safely handle their Lolita urges is a must… even in Christian homes.
Parents and the potential Lolita have a joint responsibility to talk frequently about sexual issues to avoid pitfalls in the future.