Simple EFT Tapping for when you need new and more supportive friends
Maybe you are on a healing journey. Maybe some of your friends are too, and others are staying where they’ve always been. Of course, that is your choice. And now you can look around and hear that others treat you the same way as before. But you have moved to a different place from where they are, and where they were together before, as friends or soulmates. So you may well be wondering what to do now or what happens to other people’s reactions when you change for the better.
Being in the industry where I help people improve their lives, here is a list of 7 situations that I have noticed. Yours may be similar in some way; it doesn’t have to be exactly the same. The concept is pretty much the same in all of them, as is the simple solution suggested.
An overweight woman loses weight. She may have some supportive and proud friends and family, but she suddenly finds herself surrounded by some very jealous women who try to tempt her with fattening sweets, chocolates or salty foods.
A proud and satisfied ex-smoker joins healthy friends in sports activities, walks, hikes, yoga and healthier lifestyle habits. However, some friends who still smoke try to get you to join them in “just one.” I think this is due to envy or simply to satisfy the need for a fellow smoker to share the moment with.
People who have had sex reassignment surgery may find that some family members and old friends just don’t talk about it, as if it doesn’t exist.
People who make more money than their friends may be asked for loans or asked more often for dinners and other occasions. But they are the same person inside. They have simply put aside negative beliefs about money and have relied on good financial and employment strategies.
People who have suddenly suffered from a serious illness under the skin, such as Lyme disease, multiple sclerosis, a serious back injury in which they were rehabilitated to be able to walk, or chronic fatigue, can find friends and even family. tell them “it’s all in your head” and to “calm down” or ask them to take antidepressants.
Ex-anorexics may be dumped by their previously supportive friends because they are no longer thin enough. This can even cause a recovered anorexic person to go back to eating anorexically.
People who have broken up with their ex-husband or ex-wife may find the people they considered best friends siding with their ex, and that friendship is suddenly gone.
So what do you do if you find yourself in this situation? Having been there myself, I can only speak from my experience, and you can decide what to do. I found new, more understanding friends. And as I go through life’s increasingly joyful and abundant journey, I connect and invite the Universe to send me more people who are on my wavelength. Works. It worked when I was seriously ill (couldn’t even get life insurance). And it is working now that I am expanding my business, my finances, and my abundance emotionally, physically, in my relationships and in sports.
All you need is to open your energy to find people who support you. EFT, short for Emotional Freedom Techniques, is a very good tool to help you let go of the hurtful things that people may do and say, and to open your mind to new friendships, new alliances, and new possibilities.
EFT involves bringing up the energy disruption of the borderline situation while using liberating acupressure to let it go. It can then be used to help you with positive intentions to open your energy to receive a better situation.
One example is with the use of Positive EFT. If you are looking for “Caring Friends”, start with the Heart and Soul protocol in your heart chakra. Then touch each point while saying “Caring friends.” If tears flow, let them. Release all the pain and loneliness and lack of support. Keep tapping until you feel positive and calm. Repeat this every day for 4 weeks and see what happens in your life. You may find yourself attracting more caring people around you.
I hope this helps give you an idea on how to shift your energy to attract friends who can help you move forward.