Structuring your family life for success in the new school year
Are you living your life from day to day, with seemingly
without help from his family, trapped in a thankless job?
A recent TV commercial showing the
“invisible mom” seems appropriate for your situation?
Do you feel like you’ve lost control of your life?
That you no longer have time for yourself?
You are in the same boat as millions of women.
In the old days, people who lived in big houses had
a household staff and even a household manager
to manage them. These days, if you’re a professional mom
or a stay at home mom, you are home
manager Y staff besides whatever
other duties you may have. how do you do time
to nurture you and your family? how I can
quality of life improved?
You need to take back control of your life.
Marla Cilley, also known as FlyLady, runs flylady.net,
a popular destination for women from all over the world who
desire to regain control. she marries him
concept of a check recordwhich
basically a place to track everything important
things in life, like your daily, weekly,
and monthly routines and plans.
You can keep it anywhere: a notebook, a diary,
what. It even sells a spiral bound binder if
you like to use paper tools. Or you can use a
program like the one my company makes, Mediabee.
It’s a powerful concept that you might find interesting:
I certainly did.
Once you have listed all of your routines, be sure to
delegate responsibility. if you end up doing
all yourself, you will always be out of control,
and in time you will find that it ends up interrupting
the peace and harmony of all your family. ready your
family members to help you with household chores. May
start small and increase over time.
“Easy to say,” you say. “But I’m going to finish
doing it all.”
You’re right. It’s not going to be easy, and it’s
it’s not going to happen overnight.
To implement your plans successfully, you need
communicate that plan in a way that
be well received. You don’t want to end up being
a nuisance. There are paper tools, such as task charts,
that might help you, but, depending on your household,
they may not be effective.
Again, some computer programs can be effective
because they can help you set up a plan for each
individual well in advance and automatically remember
appropriate family members on a regular basis.
So you can get out of the micromanagement business
(also known as persistent). Reach your family where they are
— via desktop, email, or even text messages
messages on their cell phones.
Once you have put the plan into action, give
some time to work. Success won’t come overnight
but you’ll be well on your way. contact me if you
Do you have any questions.
© 2006 by Saro Saravanan.